Possessing this information, I had a hard choice to make. Do I make a run at her right away, or do I wait and give her more time. It might be too soon after the break up for her to accept any advances, but on the other hand, a girl as beautiful and talented as Opera does not generally last long on the open market.
As it turns out, I hadn't decided one way or the other when I ran into her at ward prayer. A pretty good conversation ensued, and (totally unplanned) the conversation turned to a concert I wanted to go to in SLC. She expressed interest in going, I invited her to join me, and we made a date out of it. Probably the easiest and most natural date asking out I ever did in my life. It seems like such a simple thing, but it never works that well. It usually involves weeks of planning and several nervous phone calls before finally getting a hold of the girl and asking her out.
So I finally have a date with Opera. I never thought this day would come. I'm gonna Dwight Howard (rebound) her like a pro.
Sometimes this exactly how I feel trying to lock down a girl before any other guy does.